THE EXCLUSIVE STEPMOM COMMUNITY 

The stepmom real talk, support + community you've been craving.

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Feel damned if you do, damned if you don't?
Good enough until you're not? 
A high conflict co-parenting relationship leaving you feel drained?
Struggling with your relationships with your stepkids?
Trying to find your place?
Do you feel like the ex is controlling your life?

Do you feel like no in your life one understands? 

You're in the right place. 

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Hey, I'm Jamie 

Sitting on the bathroom floor, bawling my eyes out, wondering what the heck I was thinking marrying a man with three kids and an ex wife. That's how this whole thing started. 

I went from a bachelorette living in the city to a stepmom of three living with a wheat field in the back yard. Moving to a foreign country would have been less culture shock. 

Despite being a child of divorce and a Child Protection Worker with a background in Psychology + Social Service Work, I was in over my head. It turns out being an expert on the outside and living it in real life, are two totally different experiences. 

When I went to the internet for support I was disappointed with what I found. I quickly realized that amongst the overwhelming support for Moms online, stepmoms were left out to dry.

While moms are encouraged to keep it real about the challenges that come with motherhood, Stepmom are expected to keep their mouth shut. 

After all, we knew what we were signing up for right? (Not)

Despite the lack of resources I was committed. That day I decided I was going to do the work. I decided I was going to figure out a way to thrive amongst extra stress that comes with stepfamily life. 

A few years later, after a lot of work on myself and a lot of work on my family, I've created the type of support I was looking for that night.

Here you go...   

I've been a member since the beginning and I swear it's worth 70X the amount just to know there is somewhere to go if you're feeling stepparent stress. There are months that I don't even log in, but knowing it's there is so comforting

 

...I can now say that I no longer worry about what anyone thinks, how his ex feels about sabotaging our relationship, or that my moments of insecurity or tears are anything less than normal. From the bottom of my heart. thank you...
- LYDIA

MEMBERS GET ACCESS TO 

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INTERVIEWS WITH EXPERTS

Interviews with Family Lawyers, Financial Experts, Marriage + Relationship Therapists, The Publisher of Stepmom Magazine and Co-Parenting Coaches that aren't shared anywhere else.

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PRIVATE FORUM 

 connect with stepmoms from all over the world without the privacy concerns that come with engaging on social media.

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MONTHLY LIVE Q+A

Grab a glass of wine or cup of coffee (depending on the time of day) and join Jamie for a monthly live Q+A. Sometimes a coffee + wine date with a girlfriend who gets it, is just what you need.

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ASK JAMIE ANYTHING

Want Jamie's advice on something? No problem, just head to the ASK JAMIE section of the private forum 

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TELL ALL PODCAST EPISODES

Unfiltered, next level conversations that you won't find anywhere else. 

 

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THE STEPMOM EXCLUSIVE

A monthly digital magazine written for stepmoms, but not just about being a stepmom. 

 

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DISCOUNTS ON COACHING, EBOOKS + WEBINARS

Members only discounts... 

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VIDEO CHECK-INS

Have you ever wondered what happens behind the scenes with Jamie Scrimgeour? Well, now you don't have to. Each week Jamie shares an off the cuff, unedited video check-in.

When I couldn't find the type of support I needed, I decided to create it


As a Life Coach with a Specialization in Stepfamily Dynamics, former Child Protection Worker, second wife, stepmom and child of divorce, I've created one-of-a-kind resources for stepmoms who are struggling to find their place.

My goal is to normalize the struggles that come with blended family lifeand show stepmoms that it is entirely possible to live a KICK-ASS Life amongst the extra stressors that come with this new modern day family.

All the happens in The Exclusive Stepmom Community

"Your honesty is such a breath of fresh air and helps me realize this stuff happens to the best of us. I truly appreciate all the tools you’ve provided me as a stepmom...  I admire your transparency, decision to write this, and continual great example. Your work means a lot to me. Thank you for sharing so that all us stepmoms can learn and feel supported!"

- MEGAN 

My Stepfamily Stressors used to consume me so much that my hands would literally shake

 I'd spend my days consumed by the latest issue and my "to do" lists would go untouched.

I'd have a pit in my stomach and couldn't think about anything else. I felt like I had no control over my life... 

I was giving outside factors too much control over my happiness...

NOT ANYMORE!

After a lot of work on myself, and a lot of work on my family, even though many of our stressors are still the same, everything has changed! 

I want to help you get to this place too! 

SAY NO MORE, I'M IN

EXPERT INTERVIEWS INCLUDE... 

 

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BOUNDARIES & COMMUNICATION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
DR. TRACY DALGLEISH

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SCHOOL, DISRESPECT + DIFFERENT PARENTING VALUES WITH PARENTING EXPERT ALYSON SCHAFER

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CO-PARENTING + SLEEP HABITS WITH ALANNA MCGINN OF GOOD NIGHT SLEEP SITE

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HOW TO SAVE MONEY ON LEGAL FEES WITH FAMILY LAWYER + DIVORCE COACH LEANNE TOWNSEND

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END STEPMOM CO-DEPENDENCY WITH FAMILY THERAPIST + STEPMOM COACH SHELLY WARE

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HOW THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES CAN IMPROVE YOUR STEPFAMILY LIFE WITH RON DEAL

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ESTATE PLANNING IN BLENDED FAMILIES WITH ESTATE LAWYER MARNI PERNICIA

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SETTING BOUNDARIES WITH COACH & CREATOR NAJA HALL

 

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STEPMOMS & MOTHERS DAY WITH AUTHOR & COACH MICHELLE DEMPSEY 

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STEPMOM ADVICE FROM AN OG STEPMOM WITH BRENDA OCKUN, PUBLISHER OF STEPMOM MAGAZINE

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INTIMACY, CONNECTION AND SEX AMIDST STRESS WITH DR. JESS 

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TACKLING STEPMOM ANXIETY WITH MICHAELA BUCCHIANERI PDH

and more... 

UNFILTERED PODCAST EPISODES  

every couple months my husband Darren makes an appearance and we record a tell all, unfiltered podcast where we don't hold anything back...  

I SO NEED TO HEAR THIS... I'M IN

I love when you have podcasts with your husband. We learn SO MUCH from your experience as a couple. It's so interesting and helpful. Totally worth it to sign up in this community. It makes me feel I'm not alone in this. And also it makes me feel lucky too. Thank you Jamie.
- KELLY

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HOW IS THE FORUM IS DIFFERENT THAN A FACEBOOK GROUP

First, if you feel like your current Facebook group is meeting your needs then that is AMAZING! Stay where you are... But this is not just about the forum Here's how this community is different.

  • Have you ever worried about engaging or commenting on Facebook because you don't want people in your personal life to see what you've said? In this community, the only people who can see your posts are people in the community! 

  • Have you ever had anxiety about someone seeing that you're a member of a Facebook Group for stepmoms?  Again, no one knows you're part of the community because it's entirely off Social Media. 

  • Have you ever worried that your husband's ex is ALSO in the group?  Don't worry, as part of your membership, upon request, Team Jamie will scan members. We want you to feel SAFE in this community!

    When we say this is exclusive we mean it is EXCLUSIVE!!! You can even change you name.

  • Do you ever feel like your Facebook Newsfeed is bogged down by stepmom drama from your Facebook Groups?  When things are good, you don't need to be reminded of the challenges. Your social media should be a POSITIVE space! With this forum, you can access it when YOU need support. When things are good, stepmom drama is out of sight out of mind! 

[It] felt like I was getting advice from a good friend….You made me feel totally normal in this crazy new chapter I’m taking on... It’s empowering and refreshing to find someone who you can look up to, who’s been in your shoes, and can help you along the way. Thank you so much Jamie!! 

- SIA 

HAVE QUESTIONS? CHECK HERE FIRST!

Why Should I Trust Jamie?

As a Life Coach with a Specialization in Stepfamily Dynamics, former Child Protection Worker, child of divorce and stepmom of three, Jamie has combined her personal and professional experience to create real life, solution focused support that stepmoms REALLY resonate with.

She's not an "expert" who pretends like she has it all together... she's a stepmom in the trenches with you. When she learns a lessons, she shares it with you!

Her goal is to create the support she needed when she first became a stepmom. The way she sees it, you're all in this together! 

 

MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP

$11.99 US

PER MONTH

  • Exclusive Monthly Interview with an Expert (available via podcast or video)
  • Access to "Tell All" Podcast Episodes 
  • Weekly video check-in from Jamie 
  • Private + Secure forum off social media 
  • Discounts off one-on-one coaching and digital supports
  • Monthly Live Q+A (plus recording)
  • Individualized support from Jamie Scrimgeour + her team 
YES PLEASE! I NEED THIS REAL BAD.

SIX MONTH MEMBERSHIP

$7.99 US

47.99 PAID BI-ANNUALLY

  • SAVE 33% off monthly membership
  • Exclusive Monthly Interview with an Expert (available via podcast or video)
  • Access to "Tell All" Podcast Episodes 
  • Weekly video check-in from Jamie 
  • Private + Secure forum off social media 
  • Discounts off one-on-one coaching and digital supports
  • Monthly Live Q+A (plus recording)
  • Individualized support from Jamie Scrimgeour + her team 
OH YA! SIGN ME UP.

Thank-you for this platform. It's opened some really productive conversations with my husband and has helped me have a healthier view of my husband's ex ... and it's only month two! 
- MARIAH